Thanks for all the details. I finished volume 2 of Fruits Basket last night and I did notice that people kept calling Tohru "Tohru-kun" and wondered at it.
I take it back on the boys, they are calling each other -kun, although not as much as the girls do.
Re: With X explanations since you know the characters:
I take it back on the boys, they are calling each other -kun, although not as much as the girls do.