Ah ha. Conflicting canon information. My favorite!

I'll have to go check out that bartender; thanks for the pointer. The Dalmascan line being matrilinear is an interesting idea, but I'm not sure how that would work with Raminas being king and Ondore being her uncle - wouldn't Ondore have to be her mother's brother? Do we even know anything about Ashe's mother? Hmm. Food for thought...